just get bilsteins and H*R's. best setup for handling and city use. motor mounts for a stock motor can be stock, but if you want to stiffen it up get the HD mounts from black forest industries. They are basically diesel mounts.
I run no front sway bar, and a bigger rear bar.
Upper rear stress bar, no front upper bar, but I do have a control arm stabilizer bar.
edit: if you are going to have 5 or 6 batteries in the back, you are going to need custom springs.
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